For those straight guys who know, they simply say I'm straight and move on, without the feelings that someone mistook them for being gay, gay-curious or bisexual. For those straight guys who would take this as an insult to their manlihood, all you need to do is think about how you'd treat a woman that you are not interested in and what you'd say to her. Say the same thing (and think about the experience) with the gay guy as you would a woman who does not turn you on.
Let me give you an example of a straight friend of mine. He will go to straight bars with friends or gay bars with friends. It does not bother him to go to a gay bar. When he gets hit on at a gay bar, he tells the guy he's straight. However, if he isn't hit on by gay guys at the gay bar, he wonders what he's doing wrong (or wonders what is wrong about him that night) that no one is hitting on him.
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