When straight parents coerce their gay kids to be straight and fail, why is this? Because their kids are gay from the start. You can't change gay kids to be straight. The opposite is true.
Straight parents do an excellent job at raising gay kids, they've been doing this for thousands of years. Thank you. We now have millions upon millions of gay people on earth raised by straight parents. Thank you, once again, for all you straight parents at doing an absolutely fantastic job at raising gay kids.
When I ask straight males if I could turn them to be gay or if a hot male model could turn them to be gay, now or at a young age, they all answer—very quickly and concisely—No!, or Never!, or No way!, or Hell no! or a similar response. Their response is usually repeated several times to make sure, I know—without a shadow of a doubt—they are completely straight and would never, ever, ever, ever have gay sex, ever! Never! Ever! Never! Did I say never?! They are straight and no one, under any circumstance could turn them to be gay.
Now, if you are straight, why not read this last paragraph about 1,000 times.
Since straight people admit they can't be turned to be gay, then why are a certain percentage of straight people worried that gay parents could ever be successful at coercing their straight kids to be gay? It would never happen. To top it off, gay parents would never try to coerce their kids to be gay or straight. Never, ever, never, never ever, never, ever, never and never!
Straight parents try to change their kids sexuality all the time but gay parents would never do this. Why? Because gay parents have already had straight parents try to turn them to be straight and they thought this was disgusting. Gay parents would never torture their children in this fashion.
Gay parents would never use their children's sexuality to make them feel unsafe at home. Many straight parents use sexuality to make their kids feel unsafe at home and it's very sad.
A certain percentage of straight parents would use some or a combination of the following to their gay son/daughter:
Son/daughter, you should really try dating a girl/boy. When are you going to get a girl/boy friend? If you don't date a girl/boy, what are our relatives (neighbors, friends, church members, the minister, etc.) going to think? You being gay is an embarrassment to our family. Being with a guy/girl is unnatural. You will not succeed in life if you are gay. It's harder to be gay than straight, why not just try being straight. You are gay?—you are not part of this family. No kid of mine will be gay in my house, you are kicked out immediately. You are gay?—I'll beat you until you realize you that straight is the only way.
What gay parents will say to their kids:
Son/daughter I want you know that when you discover your sexuality, I'll support you regardless. You'll have no pressure to be anyone except the beautiful person who you are naturally.
Conclusion:
Homophobic straight people don't think these things through because they are not discriminated against for simply holding hands in public with the opposite sex. Also, straight people are not shunned upon when they kiss in public with the opposite sex. Why should straight people think these things through? They don't have to because they don't need to—to survive. Which is why I write these things so that common sense will find those who want it.
A note to anyone who councils parents.
When will counselors begin to teach the truth of this blog entry to straight parents?
1 comment:
How any parent could reject any natural part of their child is beyond me. Very sad, indeed.
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